too many people wanting to control too many people.   STOP trying to control each other, just allow each of us to be who we are and appreciate the positive.  If you don't like someone, then just go the other direction. no one is forcing you to stay & listen. don't like the rules at your job, find another one.  don't like their clothes, their hair, that tatoo they got one time when they were mad at their mom & wanted to *get back at her*, don't like their taste in music, ........  leave, go somewhere else.   STOP criticizing & judging, most of the time you don't know the person, no, you really don't!  you don't know what pain they are feeling, are they afraid, are they lonely, are they just shy?  START smiling at them, say hi, offer to hold the door open for them, just be nice in general.  so what if they don't look, talk, walk, smell like you or the way you think they should look, talk, walk, smell......   find out who they are before you judge them,  you might learn something! 

ok, 'nuff said.   good night & God bless!!